Hi: Someone who called herself (I am assuming it is a “her”) “anonamous” [sic] tried to post the following comment last night under my post on Tom opening at the MGM: “I am glad Tom Jones is ok too but all ur info is not from him and u dont ask him anything u here stuff and write it down.”
As she was a new poster her comment automatically went into the moderation queue. Obviously, I didn’t post it, but wrote her a note explaining why I wouldn’t, saying in essence that (1) I didn’t understand it and (2) I have neither the time nor the inclination to correct the grammar and spelling.
I suggested she try again when she can clearly explain where her info is from, why she is attacking what is posted here and, finally, how she knows that what is posted isn’t accurate.
I’m bringing this up because there seems to be a lot of turmoil in Tom Jones Land these days. Issues with the band/singers and the automatic assumption on the part of many fans that, because they read it in a Brit tabloid, he’s moving back to the UK seem to be getting people upset. There’s even argument elsewhere about the precise part of LA where Tom’s home is located because the British press persists in saying he lives in Bel-Air, even though he moved from that house a decade ago.
Yet, fans are arguing, discussing and getting nasty with each other over this. And it’s all so silly.
For the record, TJI wants no part of this.
If you want to know the rationale for some of the posts on this site and learn about the site’s origins and rules, check out About TJI.com.
Again, for the record, let me stress that I am in no way affiliated with the Tom Jones organization, do not work for them and am given nothing — tickets or access — by them. And I do not claim an affiliation.
When I can, if information is posted that’s not general knowledge, I’ll tell you the source (“an email from a UK fan,” for example) and, because I learned to do this as an investigative journalist, will always attempt to verify information. If I cannot, I’ll say so. I am very careful both because of my professional training and because I know people believe what they read.
What I am trying to say is that this site is done with the assumption that we are all on the same team: We are all fans of Tom Jones and want to learn about his professional life and career. Looking at other internet homes for fans of Tom Jones and some other very popular performers, when this site was started there was a conscious decision made not to host a forum or discussion group. This was done in order to avoid acrimony and ill-will among site visitors that is all too prevalent on similar sites/message boards/forums for entertainers everywhere. It’s a fact that fans are passionate. The idea here is to feed that passion while keeping it civil.
In due time there will be an explanation of why I do this exactly as I do and of some of the behind-the-scenes goings-on with TJI.com as so many — many! — of you have asked what happened to the domain name, etc.
For now, with the help of another fan I’m working on a special project that will be unveiled soon and hoping to continue to serve as a gathering place and newsroom for fans of Tom Jones.
Thanks for listening. To thank you properly, I posted another photo taken July 17 at Westbury. There are a lot of people, I know, who don’t like stage photos of Tom but, sometimes, we take what we can get. I think this is a good one. And thanks again for listening.
—Ellen