Remembering “Dancing Mary” With Love & A Special Video of Tom That TJI.com Dedicates To Her
Tuesday, April 21st, 2009
Mary Muratore passed away Monday night in a hospice in Las Vegas.
At 89 years of age she was a devoted fan whom Tom — based on his long experience with her — called “Dancing Mary.”
She fell and had surgery a few years ago and, again, during physical therapy. After that, she chose to stay home, enjoying hearing about Tom, listening to his music and watching DVDs. Those of us who were fortunate enough to live near her would bring her photos and videos and these were joined by some sent to her from around the country.
A Brooklyn native, Mary traveled across the USA and into Canada going to Tom’s shows. But, as she once told me, “I didn’t sit in the hotel. I saw things. I went out and saw the cities we visited. I had a good time.”
Indeed, Mary was until the end very sharp, always asking about a visitor’s work, family, and life in general. She loved to visit and loved to laugh.
The many, many other fans who knew and loved Mary recall traveling with her when she lived In Brooklyn and seeing her here after she moved to Las Vegas to be near her sister. She is always spoken of with love, warmth and respect and, when she went to shows, was always greeted with joy.
Tom was quite aware Mary was ill and he called her twice when she was hospitalized in the last two years. When he’d see fans whom he knew were her friends he’d always ask about her. Last month he sent an autographed photo to her. On it, he sent his love and wish that she’d get well soon.
Before I moved to Las Vegas I “met” Mary by phone, interviewing her for the very special tribute book fans who participated on JonesTheVoice.com did for the 40th anniversary of the recording of It’s Not Unusual in 1964. Here’s what she said:
“I’ve been a fan of Tom’s since 1965. As soon as I heard his music I said, ‘That’s the guy I love. I want to meet him and see his shows.’ It was the voice that did it for me at first. I decided to make the effort to join fan clubs so I’d know where he was going to be.
“I found out he was going to be at the Latin Casino in Cherry Hill, NJ. I went there to see him but I didn’t get to meet him until 1970 at the restaurant at the Sands Hotel in Las Vegas. That week, I had seen three of his shows at Caesars Palace. I approached him to sign a napkin and I told him I’d seen those shows and he was great and I hope he sings forever.
“From then on, the fan clubs always gave us the opportunity to go backstage because Mr. Lloyd Greenfield would arrange for us to meet Tom.
“I went to Montreal in the early 1980s. I went backstage and there, in the room, were some drinking glasses and I knew he’d used one of them. I said, ‘Please, Tom, would you give me the glass you drank from?’ He went to get that glass for me. That is my pride and glory, that glass.
“I’ve found him to be the most concerned person for his fans. He is so wonderful to us.
“The name ‘Dancing Mary’ came from one incident. He saw me dancing one night at a disco near Buffalo, New York. He was with friends and as I stopped, he said, ‘Oh, you’re a good dancer.’ Back then, he didn’t know my name. I said, ‘Oh, yes, Tom. I love to dance like you love to dance.’ The evening ended and we left.
About four months later, in 1980, I was waiting with other fans for him in front of his hotel. As he came out of the limo he spotted me waiting and said to me, ‘Have you been dancing lately?’
“I said, ‘No, I’ve been waiting to dance with you.’ He said, ‘OK, let’s dance.’ And he began to dance with me. I said, ‘Oh, my God, Tom, you’re great.’
“Since then he’s called me ‘Dancing Mary.’
“He is gracious, personable and always very kind to his fans. He has always treated me with great respect. His voice is just out of this world and I always tell him when I say good-bye to him, ‘Keep singing, Tom.’
“I was 85 on July 1, 2004 and, Tom, you keep me young. I am your loving fan,
“Mary Muratore
Brooklyn (now Las Vegas)”
To remember Mary, here’s Tom singing the wonderful Seasons, a favorite of so many from 24 Hours and a very appropriate song on this occasion. Mary’s seasons were plentiful and she enriched so many seasons for so many friends. This is posted with love. (The video is from Albany, NY, February 26, 2009. Thanks so much to Donna for this.)
You’ll find it in the TJI.com Video Library.
The photos above were taken in March, 2005. In the photo at right, Mary is with Tom, Stacy and her partner Cook E. Jarr and Don Archell.














